Posted by:
CA girl
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Date: July 17, 2012 01:48AM
1) People don't respect Mormons. They aren't looking to them as an example of light and truth. Mostly, non-LDS are just being polite and/or tolerant of your right to live a wacky religion.
2) Most Mormons don't really live the values they claim. They only appear to live those values. Look how they treat people who leave - pretty shocking for a church that claims to belong to Jesus who taught "Whatsoever you do unto the least of these, my brethren, you do it unto me." They avoid the appearance of evil but only develop the mere appearance of righteousness. Scratch the surface and you'll find it doesn't go very deep.
3) You learn how it feels to be on the other side of the Mormon friendshiping machine and you learn why your efforts never worked. You learn how inappropriate and often unkind Mormon behavior is.
4) You learn how condescending and arrogant the Mormon good example is. You realize no one was ever looking at you and wanting to be a Mormon because of the way they saw you behave. Chances are you turned them off.
5) People are much nicer, kinder, more loyal, more understanding outside of Mormonism than inside. All you were taught about the Mormons being "special" when it came to goodness was complete BS. While there are nice Mormons, non-LDS people are not just equally good they are often better.
6) Same thing goes for spiritual experiences. They don't belong to Mormons. Similar spiritual witnesses occur every day in every religion in the world. Mormons don't have the market on the spirit.
Now that your blinders are off, what reality did you wake up to when you left Mormonism?