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Posted by: gladtobeme ( )
Date: July 17, 2012 03:02PM

For some reason it just drives me nuts, and mormons seem to use it ALL THE TIME!!!

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Posted by: flyboy21 ( )
Date: July 17, 2012 03:04PM

With a passion. Even about food. I imagine it's the egg to the Mormon chicken, though.

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Posted by: forbiddencokedrinker ( )
Date: July 18, 2012 09:53AM

I was going to say it should only be used in describing a breakfast cereal.

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Posted by: quebec ( )
Date: July 17, 2012 05:19PM

I do. And to tell the truth I don't think I've ever heard it used in any other settings than in moism
and movies/books/magazines (etc) made in the 40's and 50's. ;)

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Posted by: jaredsotherbrother ( )
Date: July 17, 2012 05:58PM

Only when it's followed by the word "sex".

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Posted by: drwal ( )
Date: July 17, 2012 06:35PM

Yes I hate the way "wholesome" was used by the church. I also hate guys at BYU who said that certain girls were ugly but had "sweet spirits."



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 07/17/2012 06:36PM by drwal.

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Posted by: liminal state ( )
Date: July 18, 2012 09:51AM

"Sweet spirit" is their way of patronizing someone and being polite about it. The same way they told me that I had a "special" purpose in life because I wasn't married by 25. The same way two-faced RM roommates and coworkers would give me the ole' shoulder rub a lot more when the gossip about me was on overdrive.

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Posted by: AKA Alma ( )
Date: July 17, 2012 06:53PM

As a word it doesn't bother me... however in mormonism I think "wholesome" is code for "does not challenge my world view", which does bother me.

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Posted by: Don Bagley ( )
Date: July 17, 2012 08:10PM

Years ago, David Letterman would hold some awful food product up to the camera and say, "It's full of wholesome goodness." It never failed to get a laugh.

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Posted by: Suckafoo ( )
Date: July 17, 2012 08:27PM

I don't like the words "character" and "humble". I hear those words from my LDS loved ones waaaaay too much and that is how they see their fellow pew sitters.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 07/17/2012 08:28PM by suckafoo.

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Posted by: baura ( )
Date: July 17, 2012 08:57PM

Other Mormon words that make my skin crawl:

"worthy"

"uplifting"

"spiritual"

etc.

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Posted by: rander70 ( )
Date: July 18, 2012 10:13AM

"Delightsome" really gets to me...

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Posted by: rgg ( )
Date: July 18, 2012 06:04PM

"Forthright"

My TBM mom uses it ad nauseum!!!

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Posted by: DNA ( )
Date: July 17, 2012 09:03PM

Wholesome is Mo-speak for not sexual.

Wholesome entertainment= something with nothing sexual at all in it.

Wholesome attire= clothing designed to make people not notice that you are a good-looking sexual being.

It’s also a subtle way to reinforce that sex is bad. Which then tends to screw people up even when the gates are opened and they are sealed in the Temple and can have sex.

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Posted by: Doxi ( )
Date: July 17, 2012 10:05PM

Blecch! Yaagh! Barf! Puke! Heave! Yark!

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Posted by: Tara the Pagan ( )
Date: July 17, 2012 10:21PM

+1!

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Posted by: Mia ( )
Date: July 17, 2012 11:10PM

If you are wholesome and obedient.....

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Posted by: icanseethelight ( )
Date: July 18, 2012 12:16AM

Absolutely, unless I am asking DW if she wants the Whole thing, or just some!!

Woot woot!

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Posted by: forbiddencokedrinker ( )
Date: July 18, 2012 09:55AM

I like using the word wholesome before the word porn.

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Posted by: fossilman ( )
Date: July 18, 2012 09:55AM

Yes, and the word "moist". I just don't like the way I feel when I say it.

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Posted by: rander70 ( )
Date: July 18, 2012 10:12AM

Moist... moist... moist... Lol! You've seen How I Met Your Mother, right? :D

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Posted by: Zip ( )
Date: July 18, 2012 10:06AM

I've been half-some for years.

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Posted by: dot ( )
Date: July 18, 2012 02:56PM

"seed of the loins", and children coming from the loins of some man (repeated in the scriptures often).

In all honesty, the seed is the only thing the man contributed. The woman contributed just as much starter seed, and then grew the child, birthed it, fed it, etc. but the man gets the glory like he did all that?

I hate that phrase partly for the sexism, and partly because it's just stupid and sounds base.

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Posted by: T-Bone ( )
Date: July 18, 2012 06:17PM

When you think about it, the whole BoM is homoerotic as hell!

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Posted by: Lethbridge Reprobate ( )
Date: July 18, 2012 05:54PM

Yup....

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Posted by: intellectualfeminist ( )
Date: July 18, 2012 06:56PM

GOD yes I hate that word! I hate it like I hate "white and delightsome" or "special spirit". I hate how it's been twisted and perverted into something self-righteous and uniquely, arrogantly Mormon.
To my ears, it's the verbal equivalent of nails on a chalkboard :O

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