Posted by:
rainwriter
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Date: July 17, 2012 11:47PM
For the past couple of years, it seems like I've been looking for a concrete, no possible way that it's misconstrued, reason why the church is not true so I can justify myself in not believing. I have a hard time because I tend to be really good at writing off a lot of the reasons why others stopped believing, not going so far as to defend them, but just seeing them as having not much more substanance/truth than the things the church claims. I don't know... maybe I've been looking for something that is much more difficult for tbms to ignore, like something directly from currently approved church resources that is problematic, or something that can't be explained away by any extent of the imagination.
Really, I kow that it doesn't matter because just like I didn't need to know something as a fact when I started believing, I don't need a sworn statement from Joseph Smith, straight from church archives, saying "it's all a lie," to stop believing. But, part of me still feels like I'm looking for a reason to stop believing, some sort of tangible justification other than "I just don't... too many things don't add up and make me uncomfortable," especially since I have a (mostly, I think) tbm husband to consider.