Posted by:
summer
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Date: July 18, 2012 03:46AM
You are trusting that Joseph Smith told the truth about the first vision, the Golden plates, etc. There is no evidence that he was a truthful individual, and plenty of evidence that he was not.
I think that it is hard for good and decent people to understand such a personality. It is almost beyond comprehension. He was a con artist -- a full time, unrepentant practicioner of the con. Those people who were not his very close friends and allies were his marks -- people to be used and taken advantage of. All of them. Every last one. All of you.
You don't think that way, so you don't get it. You are used to people generally telling you the truth and operating in an honest manner. You behave that way yourself. Most people are that way, and would be that way, church or no church. But a very few are not. Joseph Smith was one of the very few. There was not a good nor decent bone in his body. He lived solely to further his own aims.
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I want you to think of the concept of opportunity cost. For every opportunity that you take advantage of, there is a cost in terms of what you have to give up in exchange. In your case, the opportunity cost of being an active member is in large chunks of your time and money, your privacy, your personal choices in terms of what you wear and drink, etc. These costs are not trivial. The time that you give up is time that could be spent with loved ones. The money that you give up represents funds that could be used to help make you and your family happy, safe, and secure. The privacy that you give up could result in a loss of dignity and adult self-determination.
However if your participation in the LDS church makes you happy, have at it. Just be sure that most or all aspects make you happy. Be very self-aware of your emotions in this regard. Don't try to fool yourself. When you are sitting in SM, ask yourself, are you happy? When you write your tithing check at the end of the year, ask, are you happy? When you put on your garments on a 100 degree day ask, does this make me happy? The Dalai Lama has said: The purpose of life is to be happy. This very wise and learned man didn't say, the purpose of life is to suffer, or to be useful, or to show compassion for others, or to seek after enlightenment. No, not any of the above -- the purpose of life is to be happy.
Do you have any children yet? If and when you do, how would you feel if some or all of those children eventually fell away from the church? How would you feel if your spouse eventually fell away from the church? Is your happiness dependent on the choices that other people make?