Posted by:
6 iron
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Date: December 26, 2010 10:36AM
This is what I find morally injurous in mormonism. You have 15 old men that expect us to acknowlege that they are prophets, seers and revelators, and/or special witnesses of Jesus. But these self proclaimed special witnesses are either #1 delusional or #2 outright conning us. I assumed that the level of integrity would be very very high for such self proclaimed prophets and special witnesses. But they are leaders of an organization that manipulates, and controls information.
We expect this behaviour from polititions, but men that proclaim to the world to be leaders of the one and only true church, and you find out the manipulating of facts, then my integrity says that I must leave from following their leadership.
An organization that blinds its followers from critical thinking, researching and accepting facts, from controlling most aspects of your lives, should have a high level of integrity, and should be promoting a lifestyle that will benifit your life. But what I have found is that they just want to use us to benifit the cult. It is soooo very very full of irresponisble, one size fits all, mormon expectations, in a culture of conditional love/affection, that it in reality appears to be anti individual, anti critical thinking, anti accepting, anti relationship, and anti family.
They promote the church as the #1 priority, above all else, even God, Jesus, spouse, children, finances. It creates delusional followers that are void of cooperation, acceptance and compromise.
Mormonism will damage your relationships with either your friends, parents, your spouse, your siblings, or your children. Just read this board for a half hour and you will see the aftermath of destroyed relationships. Even amounst tbm's, one turbo tbm may be dissatisfied with efforts of the other tbm. Many tbm's lose the ability to enjoy life and a variety of activities, to only act happy doing only mormon stuff.
The self righteous, worthy unworthy culture can seriously affect ones self esteem, and the culture of shame through interviews, damages self worth and acceptance. It seems like ego driven mormons become increasingly heartless, and judgemental/victimizing and regular mormons become victimized, guilted and dissolutioned.
When you believe it all and try to do it all, it may negatively affect your maturation.