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SusieQ#1
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Date: October 08, 2012 02:18PM
It's not personal. No need to react. Stay calm and recognize what is about me and what is about someone else.
(Didn't hit on this great advice at first, but I got to it eventually.)
Even when people direct personally derogatory or accusatory or critical comments to us, this is not about is, it's about them.
This is the essence of "common sense" in my view. (Of course, if more people had it it would be more common!)
This is referred to as "toltec" wisdom, but it's just common sense much of which I learned from my family as a small child as I was taught much the same thing and not a one of them is "toltec" :-)
http://www.toltecspirit.com/2. Don’t Take Anything Personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.
Try it, you might like it! :-)
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/08/2012 02:18PM by SusieQ#1.