Posted by:
mistydiamond
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Date: November 18, 2012 11:00AM
A TBM cousin of mine just got married a month ago. He's about 24 or 25 and his wife is around the same age. For both of them, it was the first person they'd ever dated. They dated for a month and were engaged for a month. I found out a few days ago that she is already pregnant. I was baffled as to why they were in such a hurry to have kids, especially considering he's unemployed. It turns out the pregnancy wasn't planned. They had no idea how to use birth control. I guess no one explained it to them. They thought they were using birth control, but were not and are very overwhelmed with this unplanned pregnancy. I'm curious if this is common among TBMs (married, not teenagers) to not understand birth control and get pregnant unexpectedly. Anyone else know of a similar experience among young newly married Mormons?