Posted by:
rationalguy
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Date: December 16, 2012 12:28PM
It seems that there's a mindset among some here that it's chicken shite if one doesn't formally resign from COJCOLDS when they discover it's all fake. Even Tom Phillips has been called to task for not doing it.
I am also now totally non-theist, but have no intent of resigning at present. Here's why:
DW believes that even if I'm not active, it still preserves hope of some sort that things will work out in the hereafter for me. Her delusion comforts her. My resigning would be like rubbing salt into her wounds. This holds true for other family members as well. My moral framework includes not causing any other person any mental or physical pain insofar as possible. That sums up why I won't resign.
If someone has a situation where these things aren't as much of a factor, by all means resign.
Whether there's a paper that says I'm a member or not means nothing to me, even though I'd love to "make a statement."
I realize remaining on their books may cause them to try and "re-activate" me from time to time. I actually welcome this as a missionary opportunity to de-convert them! I have rational arguments and really enjoy watching them squirm, really. Also observing the vain arguments of irrational people is amusing. Does that conflict with my previously stated moral argument? A little, but of course those who are less close to me and deliberately come at me with theist arguments are requesting to be cog-dissed. Their discomfort is of less concern.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 12/16/2012 12:31PM by rationalguy.