Posted by:
slimchance
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Date: January 14, 2013 12:21PM
Hello all. I'm new to the board and just posted a bio on the bio board for my wife and I. I've been lurking on RfM for months now. Thanks for all your stories.
I just needed to vent today about how riduculous Mormon Funeral rules are. My TBM MIL passed away a couple months ago. My wife wants nothing to do with the church but had not told her mother because we new she was near the end of her life and there was no point in upsetting her. Before dying, my MIL asked my wife to dress her body in the temple clothes after she died. My wife consented because she is a loving daughter. BTW, her temple recommend had not expired yet and MIL's bishop didn't know about our apostacy.
It ended up being traumatic for my wife to handle and manipulate her mother's dead body in order to get garmets, robes, and all the silly stuff on. I'm sure my wife would not have gone through with it but she didn't realize how hard it would be. It's one thing to say a last good-bye or have one last touch but actually dressing the body was too much. My wife only had one sibling to help her because her other brothers and sisters decided to have nothing to do with the church long ago.
DW's sister said how important it was to have the body dressed just right because that's what she would look like when she would be resurrected and meet the savior. What? All I could think was if there is a God please don't let me meet him while I'm wearing a cheap robe, a weird apron, and goofy white slippers.
I could go on and on about stuff at the funeral but the dressing part bothered me the most.