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atheist&happy:-)
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Date: January 11, 2011 12:08AM
When I arrived at YBU from another state I did not understand how the patriarchy worked. I wish I had known sooner or paid closer attention to the warning signs I did have, even if they were small.
A few ways I did not fit in were:
I had no knowledge of LD$ pop music, books, magazines, inspirational talks, etc.;
did not know what a patriarchal blessing was;
did not understand how conservative members were;
was baffled by homemaking, and disliked having someone choose my structured activity for hours on a Saturday like a preschooler (I had my own hobbies, and homework to do);
did not know so much about the temple, and nothing about garments;
I loved the arts, and if I wanted to see a concert, movie or play, and did not have a friend to go with me, I would go on my own instead of waiting to be asked out;
had no clue of the rush to marry an RM by age 20, and why that was so important (I actually wanted a degree) etc., etc.
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 01/11/2011 12:11AM by atheist&happy:-).