Posted by:
The Matrix
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Date: February 27, 2013 10:16PM
I think I have mentioned this before but as a review. I support my wife/kids and attend church for 2 hours then sit in my car for the 3rd each week(not ideal but it works for us). I work on her little by little. My saving grace is that is the only time we ever even mention church in our house in a week. It could be a lot worse, I've learned to pick my battles
In the mean time things like this just piss me off. A couple months ago a TBM says
Brother Dick-hi brother Matrix I am your home teaching companion.
Matrix-ok good luck with that.
Bro Dick- proceeds to tell me about our families and I listen politely then tell him I need to go.
Get into Sac and mrs Matrix sends me a text
Mrs Matrix- did you know your HT comp is the husband of my VT comp? Crazy eh?
Matrix- oh sh-it the full court press has begun.
Next week Nfl playoff week he comes up to me in Sac and says
Bro Dick- I have made some appointments and asked if I would go. Matrix- no thanks I am busy.
Bro Dick-Well what are you doing?
Matrix-None of your fu-cking business...wait did I say that out loud? I am watching football today and will not be going.
Bro Dick- that's why I have a DVR
Matrix- good luck with that I'm more of a live sports guy
Next week-
Bro Dick- I have another appt today
Matrix- I'm busy no thanks
Bro Dick- well I'll keep asking :)
Matrix- I'm done with this bullshit
Email sent to EQ prez
Matrix- please take me off the HT list
EQ- everything ok
Matrix-couldn't be better just real busy
2 weeks go by and suddenly HT are visiting me. We sat around for 45 min talking about the weather. That's when you truly know a forced friendship.
Fast forward to last night. Mrs Matrix arrives home from a night of visiting forced friendships.
Mrs Matrix- So your HT comp has appointments set up this week.
Matrix- really I'm not even his companion any more.
Mrs. Matrix- Really, he was asking if you have a problem going HT. but I just said you are real busy.
Matrix- ok thanks, thought about a million things to say but didn't want to fight so conversation ends but I am pissed.
First off my wife never would have seen the husband so he sends his wife to talk to mine about my problems with HT? Come to me directly you bas-tard.
So that is where we are at. How would you proceed. Keep in mind that keeping the piece with Mrs M is very important to me. She knows where I am at spiritually but I try to keep it between us and respect her beliefs.