Posted by:
Lorraine aka síóg
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Date: March 11, 2013 04:50AM
twojedis, it's really good of you to see your friend's grief and be concerned for her. She is really hurting and, you're right, the church teachings/culture makes it worse.
It's so hard to know what to say or do. I read a story yesterday about a new book written by a woman who lost her husband, her two children and both parents in the 2004 Indonesia tsunami. People kept giving her copies of Man's Search for Meaning, written by a holocaust survivor. How bad is it when people compare your life to that?
Anyway, your friend's story brought that to mind. I don't know if the book would help her or not, but perhaps it would help you in relationship to your friend's story. (Not saying you need help empathising; I mean it might give insight.)
Here's a link to the story I read:
http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2013/mar/09/sonali-deraniyagala-wave-tsunami-interview