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Date: March 15, 2013 12:48AM
>>Well I agree with this. I just think that deflecting it with a nonstatement with the implication, if they want to read such into it, that maybe you will change your mind in the future is probably the best way to get the issue dropped (if only temporarily). Adamantly insisting you're never ever going to have kids just prolongs the conflict.
>>It's not like you're going to make them learn something they don't want to know. Let them go off and think whatever, leaving you alone.
It's pretty apparent you haven't run into these pro-breeders that so many of us have. No matter how insistent or even indifferent as you suggest, we be they will always come up with some come back. For example, and this actually happened, I had a relative who asked me when I was going to have kids. Knowing that she was the religious type, I went for the "God will decide" answer, to which she continued to insist, "Oh, but you must want children, bla, bla, bla". So, no, it doesn't work that way. It'd be nice if it did. But it doesn't.
Also, this:
http://community.feministing.com/2011/11/04/10-things-not-to-say-to-childfree-people/