My friends and family fall almost exclusively into 3 groups. 1. Nevermos, who don’t understand what the big deal is. So I can’t talk to them about it. 2. TBMs who can’t accept my leaving. So I can’t talk to them about it either. 3. Closeted non-believers, who’ll talk about it with me one on one but never in public.
Consequently family get-togethers I end up just keeping to myself. And if I post something on FB or my blog it gets ignored by all three groups.