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enigma
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Date: March 14, 2013 10:56PM
Original Thread Here:
http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,825204First off; my son has demonstrated an increased interest in the Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster for several weeks now. Neither his mother, nor I have encouraged or discouraged him in any way in this regard. We have had open and candid discussions about the subject and are letting him form his own opinions on the matter. We have stated that his affinity for FSM'ism is just as legitimate as a belief in magic seer stones, disapearing golden plates, a reanimated cosmic Jewish Zombie, etc.
Second; niether my son's mother, nor I suggested or encouraged our son to wear a pasta strainer to school. That whole idea was the genisis of my son's English teacher. My son was having a casual conversation with his teacher after class about his affinity for Pastafarianism and that he identifies as Pastafarian. The English teacher lit up like a light bulb and said that my son should wear a pasta strainer to school if he was a true Pastafarian - so I suppose if you're going to make the silly accusation of staging a 'stunt', you'd have to credit his English teacher for that and, for those 'educators' that took issue with my son's choice of mythological attire, the Teacher did, in fact, make use of my son's choice to wear the hat precisely as a teaching tool for the entire class. A point you would have realized if you'd read the entire response to the teacher that I posted originally.
Third: Again, stated in the original rebuttal; my son NEVER actively denigrates the beliefs of another. He has only ever responded to the short sighted individuals who left their brains at the door and decided to single him out for, what the felt, was a bizaar practice - forgetting the fact that by any objective standard, thier mythology was equally bizzar. My son is a very intelligent but kind individual and will often stick up for those that cannot defend themselves. He's been targeted and conversationally taunted for not buying into the bullshit mythology that his peers lap up like dogs and now HE'S supposed to NOT do anything to counter that in a non-violent way??? Really? Is that what you want to teach children - to take baseless criticism and hypocritical hyperbole lying down and NEVER offer an intelligent and pointed challenge? For the folks thar are advocating this posotion, why are you not still Mormon? Following your logic, leaving the Church is nothing more than a silly stunt designed to disrupt the cultural norm. Your reasoning is flawed.
Fourth: The only instances of classroom disrupotion (according to the teachers AND my son) occured when he was told to take the strainer off his head and he proceeded to fiddle with it like a toy. Again, if you read the original response you would have seen that I mentioned that we are dedicated to cooperating with the school in making sure that my son does not actively disrupt the classroom environment. There was NEVER any indication from teachers or the administration that the act of simply wearing the strainer disrupted the classroom. And I fully supported the teacher in cooperating with efforts to curb any playing with objects during class time that could cause a disruption. Again, please read the response where I state that if my son cannot control himself and continues to play with the head gear, I will no longer allow him to wear it. As for my son refusing to remove the strainer when the teacher told him to, he was basing his decision off of what his English teacher told him (again, in the original reponse - if you would take the time to read it): I.E. that no one can legally tell him to take it off and that he has a right to wear it. And... if all things are equal, if a Jew can wear a Kippah then my son can wear a strainer. Both are equally rediculous.
And finally: Again, as stated in the original rebuttal, my wife and I do NOT teach our son that mythologies are exempt from scrutiny, criticism, or rebuttal. We do teach him that people are free to believe what they want and, so long as their actions to not infringe upon the rights of others, that he should defend and champion their right to do so. However, we have told our son in no uncertain terms that he has the right to defend himself and point out hypocrisy and inconsistency (to be a skeptic as some have mentioned here) if someone is foolish enough to cross him.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 03/14/2013 10:57PM by enigma.