Posted by:
CA girl
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Date: March 20, 2013 11:19AM
An LDS friend of mine has a presentation to give for school regarding teaching children charity and was looking for feedback on what people have done to teach this virtue to their kids. She made an interesting comment that "Charity by definition can not be mandated so how do you teach that to your kids?" Interesting since most LDS charity IS mandated.
I was wondering how you all teach your kids to reach out to others and right the wrongs in society. How do you teach them to discover what matters to them and motivate them to work for others? How do you get them to think about the feelings of others? The two things I told my friend was that I try to teach my kids they are helping equals and friends, not to think of themselves of superior beings trying to "save" those in need. Also, that I try to notice when they do things for others without being asked and comment on how that was a good decision they made on their own. Finally, I read somewhere that you should point out how good it made the person feel that they helped. The person who wrote the article said it taught children to get their reward from making others feel good. Any other ideas about how to teach your children to think of others and lift those in need?