Posted by:
emily
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Date: April 21, 2013 11:11AM
Today one of my best TBM friends growing up posted on FB a picture of herself on her mission with a caption about how it was the best 18 months for her life- that it made her a better mother, wife, woman. Her mother commented on the picture saying:
"Since you are so awesome as a woman, wife and mother- and I'll add, daughter too! - your comments says a lot about another great reason for serving a mission!"
*sigh* this is an illogical statement. Yes, I can honestly say that this friend of mine is an awesome woman and mother (have no idea about the wife part), but to give all that credit to her 18 month mission seems ridiculous. She's done so many other amazing things with her life that have helped shape who she is.
But what really concerns me is this statement by her Mom, suggesting that girls should go serve missions in order to be awesome women, mothers and wives. It puts pressure on those girls that have already decided to serve missions to live up to an unattainable standard of perfection and leaves the girls that are on the edge about serving a mission or have no desire to go on one feeling like they are less than other girls who do serve missions.
Not to mention that going on a mission is no guarantee that you're going to be transformed into an awesome human being. There have been plenty of returned missionaries that turned out to be less than stellar.
I just hope that this type of thinking isn't being widely spread to young girls, but I have a horrible feeling that it is.