Date: May 17, 2013 10:41AM
I was the victim of a female TMB sociopath this last year, almost ruined my marriage. Sounds weird to be a 40 year old, middle class white male, and a "victim" - but its true.
Her hubs was on the stake high council, and he protected me from the missionaries and home teachers by telling the local ward leadership to leave me alone, that he would handle the home teaching of me and my family. We worked together, would also be thought of as "friends." His wife, a raving lunatic, for some reason hated my wife - she started to sneak into our lives, particularly mine. She would confide in me how bad she hated her hubby in the HC, and how he was not interested in her physically or sexually. Then one day, she sent me a nekkid picture of herself. I was shocked. Then she sent more, and she wrote me the dirtiest pornographic emails any woman on earth could devise. She would tell me how she heard that my wife hated me (lies), and how I deserved more. Then, she would ask me to do favors for her and her family - watch the kids, take her hubby to the movies. Her hubby, oblivious to her insanity, (while all this was going on last summer) even told me how bad he disliked her and asked me to take HER out on platonic dates. Old crazy started asking my wife to train for marathons/10ks etc.
It is my fault that I didn't stop it, I know... alright!!!
So then, after I did ask her to stop sending me dirty pics and dirty emails, she wrote a couple of very nasty long letters and then sent more "close ups" of herself - then she managed to intentionally get herself caught by her husband, and he showed up at my house with the evidence.
The amazing part is that she would tell me how much she enjoyed being perfect little Mormon wife on one side, and an absolute whore on the other. Don't know what became of that family, and thank god they are gone. Wifey was real mad at me for a while...ended up in marriage counseling and we addressed a lot of issues in our marriage that we hadn't been aware of previously. Our marriage is great now and the healing is almost done.
What I didn't know that crazy sociopaths, who exhibited almost all of the behaviors of the woman in the OPs opening thread, do actually exist. (I always thought such people were just in movies...)
The lesson I learned is, that despite what horny 40 year old men might think to the contrary, any woman who will send pics of her stuff, and write custom porn for you, is married, has 4 kids, and pretends to be TBM and "righteous" is a crazy a$$ lunatic, or tries to sleep with you is CRAZY. It had been a fantasy of mine, and then I realized only crazy women act like that... :-)
I try to tell my wife that I am a victim and she slaps me. All the same, I hate the church.