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Date: January 24, 2011 12:21PM
I just posted an update about my brother, C coming out of the closet to my mother. I am going back to college with my mother, and we have to go to a three day orientation later this week to begin our semester. Awkward.
So, as part of our orientation, we have to write a 3 page diagnostic essay, by hand, timed, no notes. They gave us sample subjects to choose from and argue for or against, I think the one I am going to do is "Homosexuality is incompatible with the institution of marriage." I will be arguing against this statement. We'll see what mom has to say about this. ;)
I would like to discuss this topic with you, get some ideas that I can think over and write about. Here are some brainstorming thoughts I have had so far, your input would be greatly appreciated:
I would like to define what marriage means to me, which is two people who love each other and share their lives with the other. There is a commitment involved to that one other person, you will be loyal and cleave yourself to them, "forsaking all others."
Homosexual people can fit this definition easily. They are most certainly capable of love and commitment as much as any other person.
If homosexuality is incompatible with the institution of marriage, what about marriages for convenience? Or marriages where there is no love? What about people who manipulate or abuse their spouse? What about people who cheat on their spouses? Isn't that incompatible with the institution of marriage? Since when does anyone get to define what marriage means for the rest of the population? What if there was a law that if someone is abused or cheated on, their marriage was null and void? Because their relationship would be considered a insult to the institution of marriage?
Why is the institution of marriage so sacred when it comes to denying others the privilege, but not so when it comes to the protection of those victimized by their spouses? Several states still have laws which allow a husband to beat his wife once a month.
This is a matter of civil rights. It was wrong when children were segregated to separate schools. It was wrong when there was a law saying where people could sit, and which door they could enter, and which drinking fountain they could use. These laws were changed when people stood up and said, "THIS IS WRONG!" People need to stand up for gay people and say, "This is NOT wrong! Gay people can no more change their homosexuality than anyone else can change the color of their skin."
This is all I have time to write right now. Thanks for reading! :)