Posted by:
luge
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Date: August 20, 2013 09:51PM
I have been lurking and look forward to jumping in and discussing.
My DH and I took the kids and ran. OK, not that dramatic, but I stopped attending before DH and kids. I could not live the lie anymore and was increasingly unhappy and depressed. So I stopped going. Never expecting to completely leave and surely never thought I'd ever remove my protection of the garment. However, we are done. DH has just come to the realization that he is done completely and so now it's trying to live the way we'd like without "damaging" the kids. We have told them we weren't returning to church and they were cool with it. However, we pull out tea (herbal at that) or PERO and we get lectured from our older 2. How do we get past that? Creative way to say "hey, I raised you to believe this is all evil, but it's not, so no panicking if you see us with a beer, coffee or tea"?? Anyways, that is the point of our struggle right now, we have NOT told the family on either side. They know we are not attending but nothing further. I am really happy to know we are not alone nor are we the only ones. :)