Posted by:
Gay Philosopher
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Date: August 22, 2013 10:45PM
Hi Didymus,
You're welcome.
I like how honest it is. It's real human beings connecting to other real human beings: no pretenses, no illusions, just honest reflections.
We're all in this together. The ugly truth is that we're going to die: most of us from cardiovascular disease or cancer, and some from accidents, homicide, or suicide.
We're engaged in a huge, unprecedented social experiment. There are countries, including ours, with hundreds of millions of people with a plurality of values, views, problems, sufferings, desires, personalities, diseases, etc. Coalitions (e.g. "The Republicans") form and, to the extent that they're aligned, increase their leaders' ability to wield power. When power is wielded by demagogues through rhetoric and mob action, calamities such as the Holocaust ensue.
Each of us has to answer a question each conscious moment, to the extent that we're conscious beings with some (if any) degree of choice: Is my life worth living? Perhaps the answer is tentative: "Yes, I think so. I have hope that things will get better in the future. I probably still have time--maybe a lot of time." Some people answer the question in the negative. If the answer is yes, then we have to decide what it is that makes our life worth living--usually relationships--and cultivate that. If we kid ourselves into believing that it's not relationships, we should remember that if we pursue money, it's always relative to others: one man's gain is another man's loss. Making money is a social activity. Success entails social praise, or envy. It presupposes other people noticing. Otherwise, making money wouldn't mean anything. Having a mansion wouldn't mean anything if you were the only living human on the planet.
If meaning really is centered on relationships, then why are so many relationships pathological? And among those that aren't, there's usually a collective set of values and goals that unite people. What are they?
Life resembles a battlefield. Predictably, we'll all die in the end.
Is there an objective meaning to the world? I don't think so. The brain gives rise to everything that we are and care about.
It would be nice if, after death, "we" somehow "survived," and learned all of the secrets of the universe and of "God." But do you *really* believe that that's possible? Prayer didn't eradicate polio. Science and medicine did. No god required.
Try to enjoy life as much as you can. Do whatever it is that you love doing. Learn, have sex (safely), play with your children, pet puppies, listen to music, watch a sunrise in Sedona, tell your best friend that you love him or her.
Our ability to do any of that will end within a few decades--at most.
Steve