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8 years ago
fiona64
I guess I didn't find the joke very funny ... because Sam Childers, the so-called "machine gun preacher," does a boatload of work in the Sudan ... and he doesn't require anyone he helps to convert. He considers it his mission to help, not to force people to be something they aren't. :-( (I know, it's been a long time since I last posted.)
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9 years ago
fiona64
danr Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > When something causes so much stress and > uncertainty then the best thing to do is back away > for awhile and not make a decision. Things come > into focus when you give things some distance. > This. BTW, just because you agreed to talk to the mishies, doesn't mean you're under any obligation. It
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9 years ago
fiona64
anontoday Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > > or Church Headquarters demanded John be > excommunicated. > > Anyone who doubts that this decision came down from the COB, as was the case with Kate Kelly, is deluding themselves.
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9 years ago
fiona64
"They still called our landlord, and the vet to verify we were worthy of a pet.I learned never to go back to a place like this. It was demeaning." Verifying with your landlord and vet is not "demeaning"; it's for the animal's safety. I'm sorry that you didn't understand that.
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9 years ago
fiona64
I have volunteered at our local shelter for almost four years now. You need to be honest with your adoption counselor at the shelter ... or wait until you're in your home. Some animals (particularly dogs) need more room than an apartment. Even if pets are allowed, the counselor is going to ask you how you plan to exercise the dog.
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9 years ago
fiona64
+1 for the "Gypsies, Tramps & Thieves" reference!
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9 years ago
fiona64
Please explain how being *straight* is a "lifestyle choice." Because if being gay is a "lifestyle choice," it should work both ways. No love, A straight ally for equality
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9 years ago
fiona64
If I were going to guess, it would be stocks and pillory; far more opportunities for extended shaming.
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9 years ago
fiona64
That guy and his worshippers are asshats of the first water.
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9 years ago
fiona64
None of them are correct if there are three parties. She told me to get the money and split it among Eugene's kids and me is the correct form. /former newspaper editor nitpick
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9 years ago
fiona64
"If you have questions, keep them to yourself."
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9 years ago
fiona64
That's right ... blame Kate Kelly because she had the cojones to say what a whole lot of people are thinking anyway. /snark
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9 years ago
fiona64
Technically, they're openly heretical. Apostates dissasociate themselves from a church/doctrine; heretics ask questions or are critical.
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9 years ago
fiona64
I know, right? So much horrible subtext in "treat us as equals, not life support systems for uteri."
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9 years ago
fiona64
On another site, I said that OW is best compared to a hydra; cutting off the head won't stop it. It will just cause more heads to appear.
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9 years ago
fiona64
Because the Mormon dictionary is not like anyone else's. Where else is an 18-year-old youth referred to as an elder and a 12-year-old boy as a church deacon?
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9 years ago
fiona64
I noticed the same thing with ours ... it was amazing. I remember being taught that the library was where you whispered, not where you ran and shrieked.
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9 years ago
fiona64
Mine: #calledtoshare that Ballard and Clayton are behind Kate Kelly's exing: http://www.kutv.com/news/top-stories/stories/vid_12001.shtml?wap=0
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9 years ago
fiona64
Thank you for your kind words, Catnip. I had never lost a baby pet before either, and I was devastated. I kept thinking "What did I do wrong," no matter how many times the vet told me there was nothing I could have done differently. Like your little Obi Juan, our Gigi was doing well ... and then she crashed hard. My husband adopted a kitten from our local shelter not too long afte
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9 years ago
fiona64
My mother may have had the same roller-skating doll, dressed in overalls and her hair in braids. Her name was Susan ... my mother didn't have many dolls, and Susan was precious to her.
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9 years ago
fiona64
Quelle surprise.
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9 years ago
fiona64
My mother is keenly aware that I want nothing to do with my brother (his birthday is today, and he is "celebrating" in his usual location -- the state penitentiary). A couple of years ago, I suddenly got a Christmas card from my brother -- because my mother had given him my address. When I confronted her, there was a very tearful "You know he won't let up until I give in, so
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9 years ago
fiona64
I have to admit, at first I found the whole concept creepy. I was never fond of baby dolls even as a kid, and these just kind of, well, let' say the effect on my stomach wasn't good. And then I lost a kitten to a fatal disease when she was only 14 weeks old (feline infectious peritonitis). There is no treatment for it; it strikes hard and fast, and then your kitty isn't there anymore. :-( (
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9 years ago
fiona64
So, we've got animal cruelty and fire-starting right here. Anyone want to lay odds that the third leg of the anti-social personality disorder stool (bed-wetting) is there?
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9 years ago
fiona64
Equality is not just something to "sway the masses." It is a reality ... and to say that a woman with an M.Div (my favorite example) is less qualified for the LDS priesthood than a 12-year-old boy ... which means that the aforementioned woman is not "qualified" to pass around bread and water, is to demonstrate a sexism and lack of equality that I find mind-boggling. IMO, t
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9 years ago
fiona64
Tell her that if she shows up again, having been told repeatedly not to show up, you will call the police and have her arrested for trespassing. And then do it.
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9 years ago
fiona64
Choose the right ... as long as you choose what we tell you.
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9 years ago
fiona64
Exactly. I remember being in a pretty dire state at one point, and called a pastor whom I had met a few times, and whose church I had attended probably twice at that point. He spent more than an hour with me on the phone, talking me through what was going on ... with no thought of doing more than helping me through that very moment. Yes, I came to his church pretty regularly after that .
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