and, you just got tea bagged! lol.
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I love how several of them were like "if this is Hell or damnation, then I like it better than heaven" They are still trying to figure out their beliefs, but they recognize how much better freedom feels than FLDS "heaven"
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Their religion really has so much in common with LDS, the more it gets featured in the News, the more (I hope) that TBM's notice it. When it showed what those girls were learning at school, its all the same stuff that we learn at church (up until the split).
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LOTS OF FOREPLAY. I know that seems obvious, but on your virgin wedding night, you will both want to jump right into the sex since you've never experienced it. (speaking from my own mistakes, lol) Make out like you cant have sex and then do the sess when the time is right. Also, some wine would probably help ;)
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Men can be exploited in porn as well... I think probably moreso in gay porn. I never said men ARENT exploited, I just think its less so.. with less physical ramifications.... though, I did read an article about a male porn star that broke his penis (twice!) and had to have penis surgery. I dont have a problem with porn that is amateur or out of the porn industry. I also don't have a proble
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I would not say that I am uneducated.... I have done a lot of reading on the subject. The things I have seen and read about it are enough to make your stomach turn. I'll guess we will have to agree to disagree. I think the stats are off the charts for women and girls that are abused in the porn industry. and, FYI, most of them will never report the abuse... just like other women have iss
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I guess that would make me a Hinckley-ite. He was the pres. during all my formative years. And, I just thought he was so awesome and a sweet old man. I always was creeped out majorly by Thomas S Monson... so I guess it makes sense that I started having serious doubts when he became pres. He still really gives me the creeps. :/
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It's definitely not something I want in my marriage. I wouldn't go so far as it call it adultery though. Something else I have more of an issue with than the actual watching of the porn is the plight of the women and GIRLS in the porn. That industry is awful and the ways that women and girls are exploited there are beyond terrible and there's no way I could feel okay about watching that
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agree!! Why would anyone marry someone that they werent attracted to? So, if you used to be attracted to her, what changed?
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Um... we were both mormon virgins... our wedding night was AWFUL. And yes, it was shocking to see his package. hahaha! Man, we were both sooo sheltered! I feel the need to throw in there that I love my husband and our sex life is much better now. :)
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I thought I would be okay with it. I didnt know everything that went on, but I thought they would make it special (they didnt). So, to answer the question.... I went into it thinking it would be fine, came out of it wishing that I had a special experience like any other bride gets on their wedding day.
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That is something I'm worried about. I've never lived in a gray overcast place before.... and I do like the sunshine, though my skin doesnt like it so much.
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We currently live in Utah, and have been seriously contemplating a move in a couple years. I really love the idea of the Pacific Northwest, namely Portland and surrounding area. But, honestly I've only been there once and it was a long time ago... I don't know much about it besides what I read about online. I LOVE the hippie vibe, I am a little bit hippie right now, but I want to be
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Its funny, because I've lived in Utah my whole life and worked at a lot of different jobs, and at almost all of them, I was generally the odd one out when I was a TBM. I always remember thinking it was strange, since I lived in Utah. I guess I've just been working at all the right places? Except not really, since most of them were lower paying jobs.
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I think most of the things I used to think that the Mormon church was so good for, I dont think anymore... but, I do think they are good at creating a social network/community/family. We still go to activities sometimes, just to socialize with our neighbors and friends.
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Yes. I am willing to bet that it is.
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I went to his parents house both times and talked to him that way. But, he broke the rules on both mothers days and just called me at my house.
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Well, vitamins will help it grow long faster.... which is what she wanted to know.
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whats wrong with wanting long hair?
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Hey MJ, I'm very introverted as well... so I can relate on wanting that time alone to think and just be with yourself. But, generally, I dont choose that time for when I'm out in the public interacting with people. I choose that time when I am at home and can be alone. I think it's pretty rude to outright ignore someone that says hi to you. It doesnt take much out of you to nod your head
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Kind of a continuation of the thread about demonic possession (http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,1078566) I really enjoyed hearing peoples stories of their encounters with supernatural things. Anyone else have experiences to share?
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hmmm... wonder if they were talking about my family at PEC meeting this morning. lol!
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Of course its been caught on tape... have you not seen Ghost Bouncers? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2LBPoxMnfzc
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I'm torn on the subject. As a TBM, I was terrified... absolutely terrified of demons/bad spirits around all the time, like we are taught. I react really really badly to scary movies, I can have trouble sleeping for weeks. As an ex-mo, I'm not sure what to believe. Like, what do you make of stories of people and families that grew up in haunted houses and all corroborate the stories?? Ar
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Jesus Henry Christ, of course. They even made a movie about it. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1393742/ The movie is awesome and everyone should watch it.
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this thread is killing me!! "So deviating from THAT to having sex naked was a huge step." having sex NAKED was a big step for her!!!
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bahahahaha!! I love how naive she is. I'm not interested in Anal sex, but I dont presume that only gay people do it. I'm lmao at her going "WHATTT???!" when someone said that hetero couples like anal sex.
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OMG, i cant even believe that!! how crazy! I guess that patriarch was having a rough day??! My PB was very very cookie cutter. You will get married in the temple to a good worth priesthood holder and bring forth good priesthood holder sons... blah blah blah.
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just say "What made you assume that I was married?" or a simple "no, we weren't married." or a cheeky answer... "oh, my daughter was immaculately concieved!!" no need to tell them it was only one time, its not any of their goddamn business!!
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what does that mean?? I couldnt figure it out.
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