Hey Hervey, Yea, I agree with you.. hope it turns out all well for me.. p.s I have an elder brother tho, will that work out? :)
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Hi Axel, Thank you for your advice. I feel all the 5 things you mentioned are very relatable, and I'd spend some time thinking about it too. I really do hope that he's the one for me. If not, like you what said, its gonna be both a learning experience for us. :)
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I fully understood what you meant, and sometimes, I asked myself, is it worth shutting all my other opportunities in life just for him? Life is too short, and we often think that we could always get a better deal later, or find someone better... Many said its a shame that I don't give myself the opportunity as a young adult to be exposed to many others... I dont know honestly, at this moment, bei
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He's pretty much open to his friends and colleagues, but we are both closeted to our family. Sometimes its better not to let them know...
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We are both male gay and he's not married, so kids don't come into play. And yes, if he has kids, I would probably not get into this relationship with him :)
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Sometimes when both have such good chemistry and feels, it really makes you clicked so well that you forget the age gap differences. I really enjoy all my time with him, and sometimes I feel he's more childish than I am. Being youthful is really good too!
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yes, agreed.. I told him many times the thought of you leaving me creeps me out, and he jokingly said 'even though im younger, doesn't mean he will go first..'. I had plans to migrate with him once I completed my bond due to scholarship. I really hope it work well for both of us. Its a big step for me, and so far it is working really well :)
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Hi, thank you for your advice. We were attached really recently, and so far its has been really good, and we love each other dearly. As he is a cabin crew, we don't get to see each other very often, and when we do, we do cherish all the time we have together. Its good for me and him because I get to focus on my university studies as well. :)
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Thats good to hear. None of those you mentioned, so I shall stay? :)
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Hi, thank you for your really encouraging post. Being together 18 years with your partner is truly a remarkable feat! I know there will be many occasions when I will feel out of place, but he is all that I really want at this moment, and I know that I would love to be with him forever. He is really nice to him, and we both prefer a monogamous relationship. I really do that mine would work out. Th
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Thank you my friend. You parents are both really courageous person! Indeed, my partner will grow old soon and may need me to be there. I would love to do that amidst my busy schedule at work next time. Such true love and chemistry is really hard to come by. I salute your parents for their courage, and such an understanding child like you :)
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Thank you for your advice. Really appreciate it! Cheers mate!
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Hi Tevai, Thank you so much for your kind words. I'd spoke to him about my concerns too, and he reassured me times after times, with lots of patience. I know there are bound to be many comments made.. I guess I just need to live with it if I really love him
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Hi all, Im 23 this year, and recently I got attached to a guy thats 51 (I know the huge age gap difference). It started off as a hook up initially but very soon, we both realised that we were attracted to each other's soul, and the chemistry between us is really great! I know being together with him is not an easy feat, and I had warned him about the typical questions that he may get ie 'he's
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