If a Military man dies in duty to his country, he DID choose that career, but he chose to die to protect you, his country, his family. He didn't choose his job to become rich with a random chance of being killed. And showing him/her honor is hardly idolatry. It's pretty basic respect.
Same for policmen/firemen/first responders who are killed in the line of duty. It is a selfless act for th
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