Posted by:
icedtea
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Date: August 24, 2013 12:51PM
I have to respectfully disagree with themaster.
Here it is, from a woman:
Your biggest mistake is assuming that you must be fashionably dressed to be seductive. So not true. Most women DO NOT CARE if you are stylish, fashionable, etc. As long as you are clean and decently groomed, your attitude and personality matter way more than what you wear.
themaster wrote:
<DO NOT BE AVAILABLE FOR ANY FEMALE THAT IS INTERESTED she is just one of a harem. They like a challenge. Often women will go after a man simply because another female has shown an interest. NEVER date just one girl at time. Always date at least 3.>
This advice is standard PUA (Pick-Up Artist) mentality, guaranteed to repel 98% of the women you meet, especially in Utah. It won't matter what you wear if you think and act this way -- women will catch on to you quickly (except the ones that are desperate or messed-up) and run the hell the other way, as they should. Then they will tell all their friends to do the same. Word travels fast in the Morridor.
I once dated one of these @$$hats.He dated 6-7 women at all times, openly, and greatly enjoyed watching us compete with each other for the top spot on his list. Finally, all but one of us joined forces and dumped his sorry @$$. He married the remaining woman. They're now divorced.
Woman attractant:
Honesty, a HEALTHY amount of self-confidence, a good sense of humor, and regard and respect for the people you date as individuals.
You want fashion advice? Here goes:
-- No socks with sandals. EVER. Especially not with shorts.
-- Do not rub deodorant on body parts other than your underarms. Avoid Old Spice. It's the geezer scent of choice.
-- Don't overdo it with the fragrance. Women will think you're gay.
-- Keep nails very short and very clean, especially your toenails. Yes, women notice, and there are few bigger turn-offs! If you need to moisturize rough, chapped hands or feet, buy a jar of organic coconut oil and use a half-teaspoon or so. If your hands get oily, greasy, or coated with grime at work, scrub 'em down before you pick a woman up for a date.
-- Brush, floss, scrape tongue, and use mouthwash. Keep breath mints with you at all times. Use Whitestrips every six months or so.
-- If you're over forty, PLEASE trim those nose, eyebrow, and ear hairs!!
-- No one wants to see chest hair creeping over the collar or neckline of your shirt. Manscape if you have to.
-- A basic wardrobe of Levis, Dockers, cargo shorts, and a few pairs of nice slacks, plus a variety of shirts (colored tees, button downs, dress shirts, etc.) and a couple of cardigans, pull-over sweaters, hoodies, and jackets should do just fine. Color coordinate, but don't get too fancy. JCPenneys is a good place to shop for nice, basic menswear. They have some great sales, too.
-- Shoes: slip-ons, especially TopSiders, Airwalks, or other casual loafers, are good. Sneakers are OK if they are not obvious running shoes (worn for occasions other than sports). Flip-flops or casual sandals are great for warm weather. Avoid: pointy sh!%-kicker cowboy boots, white sneakers, Velcro tabs on shoes, dress shoes with jeans, grimy work boots on dates.
-- Do not constantly wear a baseball cap. Newsboy caps are also horrible (unless you really are gay).
-- Big, thick beards and mustaches that curl down over your upper lip and grow up into your nose are a huge turn-off.
-- Jewelry: If you must wear it, make sure it looks masculine. Wood, twine, leather, dark-colored metals, etc. No gold, please!
-- Keep hair well-groomed.
-- Use lip balm.
-- Pressed shirts, jeans, and casual pants make us think you are a PUA or a geezer or gay. Don't do it. Avoid excessively wrinkled clothes -- only a few men have ever been able to pull it off (including James Dean, who famously arrived at an interview with a female columnist looking, in her words, "like an unmade bed").