Posted by:
Cathy
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Date: October 24, 2013 12:26AM
I've been off the boards for quite some time, but am still active, for the most part, trying to get people to think for themselves on FB, other sites, and face to face. It doesn't go well. Why are people so determinedly ignorant and anxious to cede their lives, thoughts, finances, choices, and behaviors to this faceless, soul-sucking, life-crushing organization? I'm happier than ever these days, but the anger continues, especially when I see quotes like this (I'm sure you've already talked about it) - "Doubt your doubts before you doubt your faith." It makes my head explode - such a classic, cultish way to keep members marching in lockstep and opposed to any serious inquiry or questioning. I hate that I was ever a part of it in any way.
Hope everyone is doing well these days. Our granddaughter, whom we adore, is five now and the absolute light of our lives. One daughter LOVES that I'm out of the church, one daughter is ambivalent, and both sons simply will not discuss it for even a minute - it is off-limits and we chat pleasantly and amicably about everything else while ignoring the proverbial elephant in the room. One of those sons is going to be a father in a few months, so I suppose keeping things normal(ish) is good so we don't ruin our chances of seeing our 2nd grandchild. I routinely take a hosing on FB for even obliquely suggesting that people use their freakin' heads, think for themselves, and not allow organizations to control every facet of their lives, and I've lost friends and family like nobody's business (they simply cut me out of their lives, though I'm still "me", quite friendly and never hostile). Gotta love it. But, I know what I know and I can never go back. Happy days - no more TSCC and lots more learning about who I am and what I actually want to do in life. Love it! :)