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southern
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Date: October 26, 2013 12:30AM
Man, when will I ever learn... I let my true blue TBM mil watch my kids (age 5 and 3) for an hour while I took care of an errand. And of course two days later I've got my very thoughtful five year old asking me, "Mom, is the holy ghost really real or just pretend?
ugh
Yes, she's been telling him that he has a holy ghost living inside of him that tells him the right thing to do. She actually told him that when he does the right thing, it's because of the holy ghost. Which pisses me off to no end because I value personal responsibility above all.
She read him a book that featured the holy ghost saying "Stop!" when the characters were about to do something bad. Of course that book wasn't out when I left them with her, she brought that trash into my house and hid it from my sight. Duplicitous b*tch that she is...
So we had another one of our conversations about how some people, grandma included, really *really* want to think that some make believe things are real. We talked about how there's no evidence for those things. I asked him how could he determine for himself if something is real or not and that led to a discussion about tangible evidence. I introduced the concept of the conscience. I'm lucky that this kid is so bright, he wont be sold on it, he's a natural critical thinker and I hope he helps his little brother (who loooves religious mumbo jumbo) become a critical thinker too.
How funny that her secret attempts to indoctrinate backfire and ultimately my son laughs and thinks that her believing in make believe is childish.
I have done a very good job of reducing her unsupervised visits. Every time I slip up and think she will respect my parenting choices, she reminds me and my resolve strengthens.
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 10/26/2013 12:41AM by southern.