Posted by:
DriftingAway
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Date: November 04, 2013 08:40PM
I recall learning about the case of David Reimer as a psychology major when we discussed gender identity. The poor man's penis was destroyed as an infant in a botched surgery, so the parents were persuaded to raise him as a girl. It did not work.
"Reimer's account, written with John Colapinto two decades later, described how—contrary to Money's reports—when living as Brenda, Reimer did not identify as a girl. He was ostracized and bullied by peers, and neither frilly dresses (which he was forced to wear during frigid Winnipeg winters) nor female hormones made him feel female. By the age of 13, Reimer was experiencing suicidal depression, and told his parents he would commit suicide if they made him see John Money again."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Reimerhttp://www.nytimes.com/2004/05/12/us/david-reimer-38-subject-of-the-john-joan-case.htmlHe eventually committed suicide. How much his upbringing or inappropriate therapy affected his decision, I can't say.
You don't "raise" a child to be homosexual. I repeatedly come across the idea that the lack of father figures (due to things like divorce) makes sons gay. The thinking makes me sick. It blames the parents for something that isn't even a problem. I am unaware of any damage homosexuality causes (unlike pedophilia/hebephilia or bestiality). You also do not get homosexual children from homosexual marriages/partnerships. Studies have shown children of gay/lesbian parents grow up with gender identities that match the rest of society.
http://www.apa.org/news/press/response/gay-parents.aspxhttp://www.apa.org/about/policy/parenting.aspx