Posted by:
zarahemlatowndrunk
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Date: November 04, 2013 03:51PM
A mormon friend of mine shared this blog entry on facebook
http://sethadamsmith.com/2013/11/02/marriage-isnt-for-you/It reminded me that part of being a mormon involves a lot of unnecessary guilt and guilt tripping around being "selfish". One of the hallmarks of mormonism is to give of yourself, deny yourself, beat up on yourself, belittle yourself. If there is a problem, YOU are the problem. If YOU weren't so SELFISH you wouldn't have that problem.
After leaving mormonism, I became much more self aware. I realized that I don't have to feel guilty because I need something, because I want something, or because I feel one way or another. I came to realize that MY life really is about ME after all. That I can make decisions based on what's in MY best interest, and that there's nothing wrong with that as long as I take my fellow man into account.