Posted by:
Mnemonic
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Date: February 14, 2011 03:53PM
I think I will give the letter to his parents and let them decide whether or not they will give it to him. If nothing else, it may stimulate a discussion about these matters.
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Dear Missionary,
A mission is an important time in the life of young LDS men and women. I hope that your mission is an incredible experience filled with good memories. To that end, I would like to give you some advice to help keep you safe, healthy, and happy. A friend of mine had to come home from his mission early because of serious health problems that he developed. He ended up having multiple surgeries and spent months in the hospital. He still suffers from health problems as a result of what happened to him on his mission. DW also had problems after returning home from her mission as a result of physical and mental exhaustion. I invite you to talk to your parents about this letter and get their thoughts and opinions. Ultimately, it is up to you to decide what is best for you and your situation.
I want you to remember that you are there as a volunteer. You are not an employee of the LDS church. In fact, you and your family are paying for the privilege for you to be there. It is a huge commitment of time and money for you to serve a mission. As a volunteer, you need to decide if the amount and type of work that you are being asked to perform is appropriate. You need to let your mission president know if you feel that you are working too hard and take whatever steps are necessary to stay healthy. Stress and overwork can weaken your immune system and leave you vulnerable to getting sick.
On the subject of health, as an adult, you are responsible for your own health, safety, nutrition, exercise, and actions. It is important for you to eat right and exercise (that immune system thing again). Make sure to eat a well balanced diet. You should always evaluate the situations you find yourself in to ensure that you are safe and take appropriate steps to stay safe. If you develop any health problems, don’t hesitate to ask to be seen by a doctor. As an adult, you can be held responsible for any criminal activities you commit whether you knew they were criminal or not. Never carry a package or luggage belonging to someone else. Laws can vary from one country to the next and things that are legal in one place may not be in others. Just be mindful of this fact and don’t take things for granted.
Your passport is a very important document. It proves that you are a citizen of the United States of America and are, therefore, entitled to certain legal rights. I recommend that you keep your passport with you at all times. I would be hesitant to give my passport to anyone for safekeeping. If you do give your passport to your mission president you should at the very least make a color photocopy (before you leave for your mission) of the identification page and keep that with you. You cannot travel between countries without a passport. If an emergency or natural disaster was to occur and you didn’t have your passport you could find yourself in serious trouble.
I want you to understand I’m not saying you should complain to your zone leader or mission president about every little problem you encounter. I’m sure there will be many little problems that you will have to deal with. There are times, however, when it is appropriate and necessary to let them know about problems you may be having. If for some reason, your concerns are ignored or not addressed to your satisfaction, you should let your parents know so that they can help to resolve the problem.
And last, but certainly not least, have some fun and enjoy the scenery, the culture, and the people you meet while you’re there. You may never visit these places again.
Enclosed are two 120-minute AT&T calling cards. I opened them to verify they are still good but they are otherwise unused. I suggest you keep one with you at all times in case of an emergency. Use the other one at your discretion. International rates are higher so you will not get 120 minutes out of them.
Please contact DW or myself or even DS if you need anything or if there is anything we can do to help you while you are away. Our home phone number is ; my cell phone number is ; and my email address is . DW’s cell phone number is and her email address is . DS’s cell phone number is and his email address is .
Stay safe and healthy and have a good mission.
Yours Truly,
Mnemonic