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Date: March 27, 2014 10:59AM
My dh and I have always had a great relationship in and out of the bedroom. Since leaving the church, we're pushing boundaries but I am so scared. I went to a strip club with dh and had a good time. But now my dh is expressing interest in going to sex clubs, joining a swinger club, and has told me that he's okay if I have casual sex outside our marriage.
I'm pretty open and all, and on some level it all sounds exciting, but WTF! I'm so worried about where this is all going. I complained that he's making me feel like I'm not enough anymore, but he said that it's because he wants to enhance our marriage.
He's a very doting husband and gives me everything. I'm not sure how to handle this. I'm afraid that if I put the brakes on he'll do some exploring on his own. We've been married for over 20 years and I know this is coming from a place of being held within the confines of TSCC our whole lives. We were both virgins on our wedding night and have never slept with anyone else (as far as I know!). Help!