Posted by:
darth jesus
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Date: April 19, 2014 04:43AM
you are giving them way too much power.
i had a similar experience. he wanted to meet with my kid, not even 9. he wanted to know why my son didn't show any interest on being baptized. i didn't bother with 1 and 2 below. i went straight to 3.
1] find out if it's legal in your state to have a meeting with a child without your consent.
2] if illegal, mention that to your bishop. let him know he would be breaking the law. you are calling the cops and your lawyer.
3] legal or not, it's your kid. tell him he's not authorized to talk to your kid in private. if he has a problem he would need to talk to your lawyer.
i don't know what other ramifications that could have. no more cookies delivered to your door by your home teachers? big fucking deal.
man up dude. let him have it. fuck what he says.
it's your kid for christ's sake.
in my case, nothing happened after i told him no. i ended up going into his office. i told him i was there representing my kid. if i heard something i didn't like we would finish the meeting at once. and we did.
he looked at me like he was about to die or something. good riddance. i thanked him for his time, stood up and walked away. never been bothered again. we had a really polite conversation but I was the one who was dictating the pace and the topics and above all, my precious time. take charge of the situation.
take care bro.