Posted by:
Recovered Molly Mo
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Date: May 16, 2014 10:33AM
Hoarding is a sign of mental illness. From what experts have seen, it is usually triggered by some sort of loss or fear of loss/catastrophe.
Most of the people on the Hoarders show had a need to collect to make them happy, to control others, or hold on to something they lost/might lose. It is a really twisted, inefficient way of control.
In Mormonism, EVERYTHING about your life is controlled from ChurchInc. Mormonism BREEDS fear. Fear of being alone, hungry, sick, or unworthy. (Funny how no one fears being unhappy, poor, or micromanaged!)
I think Hoarding in Mormonism can manifest out of fear or out of trying to take CONTROL of their lives.
I have seen Hoarding in LDS homes come in a few form.
*Really bad Food Storage. Afraid to use anything "incase something happens" and afraid to throw it out..even if it could make you sick or kill you!
*Years of Ensign Magazines. Because you never know when the urge to read a 1982 talk on the prophet will hit you.
*Stocks of fabric. Because in a disaster quilt making will be paramount.
*Shoes. This was just for practical reasons of having 5 kids. Sadly, most of them were horribly worn out and most of the kids that got the handmedowns developed foot issues.
*My ex had a thing for hoarding food, tools, garments, anything with BYU on it (even tho NOT alumni) and any newspaper clipping regarding CHURCHINC. (even if he never read it!)
I would toss the old food, dispose of his old/nasty garments THE RIGHT WAY, and "lose" the clippings. When we divorced, half of our garage was boxes of this stuff. He had moved out 3 years prior to selling the house. I asked him for 3 years to clear out his stuff in the garage. It needed to go and he kept finding ways to not deal with it.
So, one day I opened the garage and dragged it all out on the driveway. I called him and said..weather forecast said it looks like rain in a day or two. He freaked because he said he had no where to put the stuff. Not my problem. He had to face dealing with it or it went to the dump.
He was livid and threatened to call the police on me! I told him, please DO. Another empty threat. He ended up coming over and loading up 3-4 carloads of stuff and dumping the rest in my trashcan, screaming and moaning the entire time. I am sure it was very stressful, because hoarders fall apart with decisions like that, and NO ONE HELPED HIM.
Also, when all that stuff was cleared out, I found two dead and smothered RATS where boxes had shifted and flattened them. Tons of his stuff was destroyed by the rats. I swept out a BUCKET of poop. All his stuff was blocking an area in the garage where the rats busted a screen and came in for the winter. I cleared all the ex's stuff out because I saw evidence of rats breaking into the food storage of the ex.
I cleared out the garage, fixed the vent MYSELF, and got it all neat and clean for sale. He never acknowledged that I was doing this for health and sale reasons..it was just all about him and his sacred collectables.
RMM