Posted by:
outofutah
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Date: December 11, 2010 02:00PM
We've received a Christmas card from TBM SIL and BIL that basically only consists of a photo (in three separate groupings) of their grandkids. The red border on the card tips it off as being a holiday card and at the bottom it reads "the family of John and Jane Doe". BIL and SIL are not in the photo; there is no identifying with "John and Jane" other than this is a picture of their grandkids.
Grandkids are wonderful; make no mistake about it. But there is something odd about being in your mid 50's and having nothing to communicate about your life in a holiday card other than photos of your grandkids. A photo of the whole family perhpas but no one is on the card except the kids.
I gather that within our TBM family there is some unspoken competition about who has the most kids/grandkids. When TBM MIL calls us up to announce the birth of a new grandchild she speaks about numbers and "producing."I find this unsettling. Its like speaking of a herd of cattle.
Anyone else experience this?