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Date: October 12, 2010 10:38AM
Hi. I'm new to the board. I've been spending some time on this site and researching the Mormon church out of concern for my two nephews.
My sister has been a TBM since her early twenties. She is very intelligent in every way.
Except in the one way where she actually buys all that atrocious mormon doctrine and buys the story of the fourteen-year-old kid somehow finding golden plates that no one ever saw. Yeah.
Anyway, she was always a lttle kooky with her beliefs. But lately, over the past year or so, she's been going a little strange. Making snide comments about family members such as "Oh she isn't a member of our church so she doesn't believe in marraige." She makes a huge deal about our non-mormon mother smoking whenever she comes over by demading that the whole house be sprayed and opening all the windows and PRETENDING to cough. The kids starting to pretend to cough when they come over as well. I've tried to explain to them that its just so FUCKING RUDE!! She's been trying to quite for ages, its a real struggle, and it makes her feel bad every time my sister makes a big deal out of it.
She completely freaks out whenever anything that isn't G-rated shows up on TV. And I mean anything that involves hugging, kissing, worlds like "hell" and "darn", anything involving beer and smoking. She doesn't let the kids drink tea or caffeine. I was showing one nephew some pictures of dinosaurs on my computer and talk to him about evolution, and the next he visits, he tells me not to talk to him about I see on the internet because it "pollutes" his mind. I starting to think my sister doesn't believe in evolution or something.
Worst of all is the way she treats her kids! She completely spoils the younger one who's about four, and is so hard on the eight-year-old it'll be a wonder if that poor kid will ever have any self-esteem. She expects to be "perfect." Gets on his case for EVERYTHING. Not getting dressed properly, asking a question, making jokes. He gets in trouble for things he can't even remember anymore. One time he puts his plate of food on the coffe table. My sister gets off the couch and knocks the plate on the floor, and then blames him for it. She expects him to watch his four-year-old brother and if he gets upset for any reason, its his fault! The four-year-old gets knocked over by a wave at the beach, and she's all over him. The eight-year-old gets knocked over by a bigger wave, sand in his mouth, crying, scraped arms and all she says to him is WHINE WHINE WHINE and then turns away and ignores him. Four-year-pld knocks a cup of lemonade, and its the eight-year-old's for not watching so she sends him at night by himself to fetch a bucket of water. Currently he has to go to bed at 5:30 PM for two months for something he can't remember doing. Believe me, these are just some of many, many incidents. The kid is already becoming quite a sneak as well. He's getting good at lying to her.
Where am I going with all this?
My sister has been treating my nephew this way ever since he got baptised. She thinks that he has some sort of spiritual gift and should automatically know better, be the perfect Mormon Boy. Meanwhile the four-year-old is completely spoiled and does whatever he wants, and whatever he does wrong, the older one gets in trouble for it.
I'm sorry for using the board in this way. I came here too vent about this, because I'm close to my nephews and I'm so angry at what my sister is doing to those kids in the name of her religion. Its turning the oldest into a devious little sneak. He isn't as happy as he used to be.
Thank you for letting me vent. Has anyone else had any similar experiences?