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Date: June 24, 2014 12:51PM
We've all heard it in some form "You think you are happy but you don't have the blessings of the gospel so you really don't know what it means to be happy." Or maybe "those who indulge in sin rather than follow the gospel path only think they are happy." Or even this gem a TBM high school friend posted on Facebook:
I know how much you like thrills, adventure, and excitement. Do you want excitement? I’ll give you excitement. Do you realize you are outnumbered in the world 1,000 to 1? The sons of Helaman didn’t face those odds. As the winds of popular opinion intensify and the mocking increases from those who are trying to justify their own unrighteous actions, you will be required to put on the full armor of God. You will need to fight with all of your strength to keep unspotted from the world. We plead with you to stay true—not for us, but for you. - Glenn L. Pace, “They’re Not Really Happy,” Ensign (CR) November 1987
And yet it's Mormons who have a higher rate of anti-depressant usage, Utah that has one of the highest rates of plastic surgery in the nation, implying people aren't happy with themselves the way they are and Mormons who attend sacrament meetings with the joy and rejoicing of those who are attending a funeral. Here's the irony - many non-LDS who know a Mormon at all think that either Mormons don't seem happy or seem afraid or seem like their happiness is fake and shallow rather than deep and authentic. Next time a Mormon says something like that to me, maybe I should laugh and say "That's funny - that's what everyone else thinks of Mormons." Of course, they'd probably respond that it's because non-LDS don't really know what happiness is so they don't recognize it when they see it ... sigh.