Posted by:
jaydedcammie
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Date: July 18, 2014 08:23PM
To make a long story short, I've been inactive for many years now. I recently started working as a companion/caregiver at a job where one of my clients is LDS, and occasionally as part of my job, I have to go with her to church. May of managed to slip by if we wouldn't have been assigned to the same ward.
My roommate, who is the opposite sex inactive only to please their parents, otherwise they would resign and I hit a tough spot and the church heard about it and helped us out. It was very nice and I started going again. They knew about the roommate, about the fact we had things in our home that were against the word of wisdom, but at least at first, it was nice. Then I started getting the subtle nudging of "So tell us about your roommate" and "Can we bring over Stake officials to meet you and your roommate" and worst of all, them bringing Stake officials over after I had already stated no because I would not be home to visit my roommate.
The roommate and I don't have a relationship past friends, and yet I feel like they are assuming and checking up on us, and to make it worse, trying to use me into pressuring them to becoming active again.