Posted by:
Lorenzo's Ho
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Date: July 21, 2014 08:40PM
I am so tired of repeating this cycle every time a family member discover's we resigned form tscc.
1. They respond in writing or calling to let us know how disappointed they are with us. How wrong we are. How we are destroying our lives and our kids. And that we are going to Hell. etc. etc.
2. We defend our selves and the reasons why we left.
3. They respond with all the bom scriptures that mormonism is the true church, adding their testimonies and personal experiences testifying of the truthfulness of the gospel.
4. They believe that there is something they can tell us, that WE haven't already considered. Even though everything they say, preach, or testify of was all considered before we reached our final conclusion to leave.
5. They withdrawal themselves from us and say that "WE" are placing a wedge between us.
This cycle is so exhausting and seems never ending.
In the end neither party has said anything to persuade the other. I feel like it is better to not respond at all. But maybe that is just prolonging the inevitable.
Mormons are so conditioned to react this way, I'm sure anyone in my position has experienced this cycle themselves. Maybe even have advice to share that has worked for you in dealing with this shit.
We get it from both sides of the family and I'm worn out.
My Dad and Step Mom have been the latest to write us, upon hearing news we left. I have no energy to repeat this cycle. I don't want to respond. I know exactly the way it will go.
Please don't suggest writing a letter to all family members why we left, because for every letter that went out we'd get a hundred more that would just repeat that same cycle. They would just send us more church literature.