Posted by:
idleswell
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Date: July 24, 2014 03:23PM
When I was the clerk (for many years) I often got to listen to a bishop's musings. A bishop once told me how the Church improves people lives immediately.
What the bishop said is true - but only to an extent. Converts to the LDS Church tend to come from disorderly lives seeking structure. The Church can help them with this. An improvement can result.
People with their lives "together" as functional within society rarely join the LDS Church. When they do their improvement is not as striking.
But after the initial spike, improvement levels off. I have wondered why this is? I believe the approval structure within the Church leads to a plateau.
An adult Mormon either "has a current temple recommend" or "is endowed without a current recommend" or is "unendowed." If a Mormon does not hold a recommend, there is a strong impetus to receive one. However, when a Mormon has their temple recommend, their incentive to study and improve themselves in any area diminishes greatly.
My wife exhibited this throughout our marriage. She had no desire to develop talents or "grow spiritually." Her only desire was to have a temple recommend.
Pity that the skills (or qualities of character?) required to have a temple recommend do not necessarily translate into preparation for the real world.
Bishops have told me that tithing helps people learn to budget. However, the Church itself provides no budgeting advice. For all the bishop knows, members could never be using any budgeting at all. If the tithing comes in, that is all that matters.
The reason Mormons appear arrested in their development is that their primary motivation ends once their Church obligations are satisfied. Mormons learn to do the minimum to "get by:" i.e., maintain that temple recommend.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 07/24/2014 03:38PM by idleswell.