Posted by:
catnip
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Date: August 13, 2014 01:33AM
For quite some time, I had been feeling very uncomfortable with many aspects of the church: the insistence on absolute conformity, tearful, soap-opera-like "testimonies," stupid, busywork callings, etc. But in the church, you can't ever DISCUSS these feelings with anybody. You either get shocked silence, or hit with the old, "Pray, pay and obey" line, plus "you need to read your scriptures more often."
When I started reading on this board, I realized that there were a LOT of people who had shared these feelings, and that it was possible to ESCAPE.
The late, great Kathy Worthington was still around back then, and she and I exchanged some emails, and she was amazingly understanding. She understood exactly what I was going through. And as I got to know other folks here, I felt as if I had come home.
Other people, much more schooled about the church and advanced in their own recoveries, provided articulate explanations for the fuzzy, incoherent feelings I was experiencing.
For a while, I felt very angry and betrayed. After resignation, most of that faded away. Now I just hang around the board because I enjoy the people here and like to read their comments.
Eric K, Susan I/S, CZ et al, thank you yet again.