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dcgsage
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Date: August 18, 2014 06:44AM
I know I don't post much, but I do get on here and read posts now and then.
I have resigned and so has my son. My wife is not attending church as is my daughter.
What is killing me slowley is my inlaws hate me. They are not only TBM but highly fundemental. IN their eyes, I am headed for hell and dragging their daughter and grand children along. They live about a mile away and over the last half a year, they have been soiling my name to neighbors, friends, family, etc. I try to keep in contact but fewer and fewer will have anything to do with me. I have High Funtioning Autism (aka, Aspergers) and my imagination is running riot with what might be said about me. With this disability (which my inlaws refers to as a buzz word, not a real disability), it takes everything I have to cope with day to day, work, family, etc. I suck at social games and the NOT knowing is even harder to cope with. I almost consider this to be abuse.
On my side of the family, I fear the same thing is happening there too. I have some mebers who have stopped interacting with me and when there is interaction, it results in blow ups. My face book is hell for me. I think I might discontinue it. My folks don't know I resigned. They think I am just playing a black sheep, something I have done off and on for decades. My sisters (I have no brothers), accept their black sheep family member and joke about it. Yesterday, I opened up to my closest sister who is very TBM, and told her I resigned. She seemed fine at first, then went on a bit of a speech how this is not problem and it is easy for me to come back, baptism and a single blessing to restore all 'benifit'. I told her I was not interested. She seemd fine but very cool. Not sure where I stand. I asked her not to tell others. Her husband teaches at BYU and is very open minded, though highly TBM. She said he would understand. I assked if she was sure. I trust no one.
I am terrified to facing a comoltely soiled name, shunning and the thought that my inlaws might do anything to destroy my marrage, rumors, etc. My father in law is so fundimental, he still believes in things like blood oaths. I am wondering about a bullet that might find me. This is how Aspergers works. My mind is running riot. I have a hard time sleeping, terrified for my life and or loss of family, soiled name in the area. If it wasn't for my job being so good and such jobs very hard to find, I would leave for another state.
If they suceed in ruining my life, I worry I might just leave life.......the suicide of Robin Williams have really shaken me up.
Thx for your ear. Sorry for all the typos
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 08/18/2014 06:46AM by dcgsage.