Posted by:
peregrine
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Date: May 04, 2013 08:51PM
So apparently while I was over at a friends house today the elders called and made an appointment with my wife to come talk to us on Wednesday. I've never been one that was afraid to talk, either on my turf or theirs. So I'm kind of looking forward to it. I don't want them to feel ambushed to I'm going to prepare a few ground rules and have them agree to them before we start.
Rules:
1. Whereas 4 of the six of us have resigned from the church and the other 2 are non-believers, you will treat us as if we are non-members.
2. All truth claims are proven by logic, reason, and evidence. emotions, feelings, and other squishy things prove nothing except that people get emotional when they talk about certain things. This is not to say the emotions are unimportant. It's just that emotions tend to impair logic and reason.
3. Do not under any circumstance tell me what you "know" unless you can provide evidence to support that knowledge. (see ru1e 2). Statements about how you feel, what you believe, and what you want to believe are just fine. Claims of knowledge however must be held to a higher standard.
In return I will:
1. Be patient with you and you are welcome to stay and talk about anything you want as long as you stick to these rules.
2. I too will obey the above rules 2 and 3.
I look forward to a pleasant discussion. I hope that the teacher and the student can both be edified.