Posted by:
janeeliot
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Date: September 13, 2014 05:07PM
Whoa! Thank god T shirt and jeans are not a "costume" and are not imposed on us as a necessity for belonging in a group. Thank god we don't make "statements" with our clothing -- and, wow, like, if we did, man, all those statements would be how each of us is unique. Although, we all end up looking alike! Weird, man. Ironic.
This is one of those cases when "Simply Being Human" seems to be confused with "Everything I Hate About Religion!" Dress is human -- period. All people, including you, use it to explore the boundaries between socially required and self expression. It is used to establish class, position, sexual attractiveness, and to make statements about values -- including beauty as well as divinity. We think we have a nice balance between self-expression and cementing our belonging in the group, but let me suggest we might be just a tad ethnocentric.
I cannot take seriously the blanket condemnation of religious dress as ugly, ridiculous, or expressing control/being controlled. One of my First Nations Facebook friends loves to post pics and vids from Powwows. Those costumes are art -- pure and simple -- gorgeous, good-as-it-gets. They are also, of course, tied to Native American religions. Anyone who gets her knickers in a twist over yarmulkes but loves berets, backwards baseball caps, ski hats, and hippy headbands needs to stay after school and write on the board fifty times "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder." Good heavens. Do you pass out "Xenophobe of the Year" Awards around here? How many are competing? In drama, costumes and masks were originally used to impersonate the gods (best guess) -- which led eventually to the costumes of Star Wars and the Ascot scene in My Fair Lady. Let us now praise the wonders of impersonating the gods and goddesses.
As for religious dress being controlled dress -- please. Let me guess -- you ran right out and got a tattoo and couple of extra piercings -- because it was so UNUSUAL in your generation? It expressed how you were NOT controlled? And you were the only one who wasn't controlled. Every time you get dressed in the morning you are putting on a costume, and not to realize how much of it is proscribed -- even if just by poverty and laziness -- is to rather miss the point of something important we all share as human beings.
Humankind is an endless source of weirdness -- and maybe we might give thanks for that -- even though sometimes the weirdness is connected to religion -- so let's praise lederhosen, kimonos, saris, ball gowns, prom dresses, good slim fit jeans, embroidered cowboy shirts, and mile high white hats and not think them ridiculous on Catholic bishops but quaint on Brittany lace makers in folk dance. I think we should celebrate the infinity wardrobe possibilities of being human and many things we can say with the colors, textures, and shapes we wear, what we choose to cover and we show. And we should grant to those in religions the same right we claim for ourselves.