Posted by:
nolongermolly
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Date: November 15, 2013 11:17PM
Long story short. When I was 18 I was trying to stay true to the church and not see the faults with it. I fell in love, we got "engaged" and planned on getting married once he was back from his mission. Then, his mom heard that I was having doubts about the church, and ultimately told him to chose me, or her and his family that he would be able to have for eternity...and he chose his mother.
Now, he's back from his mission and going to BYU. We still have mutual friends who we both talk to, but we don't talk to each other. I've moved on, I would never go back to that lifestyle or him. He's began seeing a girl who has the same first name as me, bought her glasses that are the same brand/color as mine, bought her hair extensions and had them highlighted exactly like my hair (so its now the same length, cut, color, and she's learned to style it identically to mine), bought her make up and had someone teach her how to do make up (she never wore it before, and funny, same high end brand he knew I wore), convinced her to switch majors to what I got my degree in...SHE thinks he just sees the "beauty in her that she can't see in herself" but everyone can see and tells me that he's trying to replace me with "as close as he can get with a mormon girl." I wish the poor girl could see it. He's gone as far as erasing her ipod to replace it with music I listen to...even his friends who he's known since kindergarden have told me how freaked out they are by his behavior and asked if I could talk to him. I won't theres nothing for me to say, I just wish she could see that his "love" is really control, and she deserves better. Poor girl is being used to replace the girl his mommy took away from him. I hope she sees the light before he proposes and she is stuck with him!