Posted by:
Stormy
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Date: March 18, 2011 01:04AM
We have a good relationship..he can see the boys whenever he wants to. We divorced because I could absolutely not go through with conversion to Mormonism. He choose the Church not me. I won't say that was a confidence builder because it wasn't...it hurt and hurt deeply. I remarried and divorced. He never remarried.
So tonight he calls and asks can he come over to talk. Sure, thinking it was something about taking the boys somewhere.
When he came over, he said. "I have something to show you." OK and pulls out his "I'm out of the Church now paper." He's had it for 5 months.
He then explained how he worked his way out...reading this board and reading everything he could.
I was speechless...and that doesn't happen often. All I could say was why? Why now? It took him a long time to investigate and leave the church. His parents are ultra TBM as are the rest of his family, pioneer stock and they hated me since I was a nevermo.
This is the only man I ever truly loved...and I've never stopped loving him.
So here we are...he's not Mormon any more. Do I trust this or not? He said...he never married because I was the only one he ever wanted to marry. He still feels the same and that his leaving the church is his proof of his love for me.
You have no idea how much I want to believe him...but I've been hurt by him so deeply before, I'm uncertain.
Has this happened to anyone else...what did you do?
I really want to believe he's left the Mormon church behind.
stormy