Posted by:
demoneca
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Date: January 02, 2015 02:40AM
Back when I attended church, I got along well with another girl in Sunday school. We talked often, and one day she told me her dad would get angry and hit her. She's a wonderful person, but did a lot of "unworthy" things (wear shorter skirts, smoke, pre-marital sex), which was partly why he'd hit her. I was surprised and sad to hear this, since on the outside, she seemed close and happy with her dad. He seemed to cherish her. I never would've guessed otherwise until she told me.
I was even more shocked when she said she told other church classmates before, that they replied with "your dad loves you in his own way" and "deep down he loves you." ...Really?! How deluded can people be to brush aside abuse? My first reaction wasn't "families forever" when she told me this. She thought it was bs too. This friend graduated high school early just to get away from her awful parents. When she transferred for college, she was scared to move back to her home state because he lived there.
The very sad recent post on abuse reminded me of this acquaintance from church. She was so happy when she moved, thankfully, and has been better since.