Posted by:
Utahnomo
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Date: October 15, 2010 01:39PM
So I was thinking about all the uproar over BKKKP's talk. Now I have been out of the church for quite a while now but I remember when I was active this was kind of the attitude about sex.
Recreational sex was not something that was even considered. You had sex to make babies period. Now granted, you are told to make as many babies as you can, but still that is what the purpose of sex was. So if that is the only reason for a good little morgbot to have sex in the first place, and if recreational sex, or sex to bond as a couple is not even a consideration, then it isn't so hard to understand why they say gay is bad. I had a friend back in the 80's who with his wife were put on probation for having oral sex, between a husband and wife for hell's sake!!!
The whole concept is just effed up, because sex is the only way for a couple to bond intimately. Studies have been done that show that the body excretes a hormone when the whole climax thing happens and whoever a person is with when that hormone is excreted is who you bond with. It has actually been shown scientifically that having multiple sexual partners is negative in a psychological kind of way because that base instinctual part of the brain gets all mixed up not knowing who it should bond to. The female reaction to this hormone is much stronger than the male reaction and causes more distress in that part of the brain when a woman has sex with many different partners. They think it is because men are actually made to create babies and having multiple partners for them is just homo sapien's way of keeping the breed from extinction.
Anyway, in my opinion, the attitude of the church about only having sex for making babies is one of the reasons I am no longer married to my TBM exwife. I enjoy sex and I like to participate in it as often as possible, and I don't want tons of kids running around the world so I definitely don't do it for procreation purposes only. I encourage everyone to participate in sharing that most intimate of ways to be close to another human being, and if that is two people of the same gender or of opposite genders, its all love and love makes the world go round!!!