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CA girl
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Date: March 29, 2011 09:42PM
They don't stop to think maybe some families SHOULDN'T be forever. Like an abusive, overwhelmed mother who always made you feel like dirt or a husband who is always dismissive and condescending and controlling or a father who spent all his time at church callings and had no relationship with his children. For example, I know more than one temple marriage where the couple are obviously deeply unhappy with each other and their kids are taking the brunt of it and I know a number of women who have dumbed it down considerably to make things work with a controlling husband and a number of men who are second place to their wives "servicing" the church and/or their wives sexual hangups. Yet all these people don't look at the possibility that everyone might be better off apart - not always but sometimes - people are sincerely better off away from each other. But they'd rather be crippled by a bad family relationship under the guise of keeping a forever family. Maybe everyone would be better off if they just chose who they hung around with, both in this life and the next.