Posted by:
Inpain
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Date: April 03, 2011 12:01AM
I have been married for 21 yrs this may. My wife is a lifetime lds member and i'm a convert of 19 yrs now. We are currently in active. We were sealed in the temple 5 yrs ago this may as a family with the kids. She had a 2 month affair 10 yrs ago and told me about it and severed it herself. I left her for a month then reconcilled since all she said she did was kiss, hold hands etc.. non sexual..... Then last sunday the guilt was eating her up I guess she drops the ball on me that she performed oral on him but just once and upon asking more she was also fingered by him... I think I need to divorce her and move on.. I don't have anyone to speak with and need input on ending it or trying to deal with her being decietful to me for the past 10 yrs and even going to the temple. I'm hurting and please help.